Thoughts on helping everyone
Has anyone ever noticed that some people are satisfied with the conditions they are in, even if these people constantly complain about these conditions. When you start trying to help such people, this help turns into a rather thankless task and begins to put pressure on you in the opposite direction along with a complete lack of success.
If this happens, consider giving up helping these people at least for a while when you notice the lack of success, and try to analyze your behavior and the behavior of the person you helped. Perhaps the person you helped does not need your help at all, even if this person tells you every day how bad everything is around.